My husband claimed its my fault that the kid doesn't recognize his authority.
My husband always claimed its my fault that the kid does not recognized his authority. Most of the time his is very stick with my 4 yr old daughter and sometimes his so rough on her. And i always told him he need to be soft and caring on her so she recognized you. Being so stick and always gave the kid a consequence does not make the situation right.
I always talk to my daughter on what is going on, what is the problem and why? I barely do spank or gave her punishments. My husband if he said something and my daughter doesn't follow immediately it's a punishment. And somehow my daughter got used to it and even more she doesn't listen.
How do i talked to my husband about this?