I am 8 1/2 months (34 weeks) pregnant and I don't know if I would go for a 'painless' normal delivery or the natural way without anesthesia. This is my first pregnancy and I don't have any idea if I could tolerate much pain during childbirth. I heard several feedbacks from moms that had 'painless' delivery( with anesthesia) that they had short term memory loss or anxiety after child birth. which one to choose?