Hello everyone,

I am new to this but I am one that can drive myself crazy just sitting thinking about why I haven't gotten pregnant yet. We have been trying since January. In March my cycle was 30 days but my cycle in February was 40. My cycle in January was 30. I am usually 30 days. I have read that since my cycle is usually 30 days that I should ovulate on the 16th. Is that a definite? The reason I ask is because on day 13 I felt a pinch on my right lower abdomen then I had small amount of clear discharge after that. I am not sure how to use the ovulation tests and I don't know if I should be worried at all that I am not. I know its not a big deal till after a year but I don't want it to come to a year. I will be 31 this October. I just want to put my mind at ease some how.