My two sons have a five-year age gap. My older one is very active, while my younger one is somewhat laid back. But when it comes to interests and activities, my younger son seemingly wants to follow in his brother's footsteps. My older son plays basketball, sings, dances, draws, plays instruments... and does all these well. And my younger son follows suit... but sadly, he never feels he is as good as his brother. I don't compare them, lest one feels better/worse than the other. How do I spot my younger son's gifts and talents when he always tries to follow his brother? How can I encourage him to be his own person and pursue other areas where he can excel? Help, please...