Hello, I have two boys ages 1 and 3. I had two high risk pregnancies' where I had to go on immediate bed rest for my first pregnancy and my second I had a cerclage done where I had a nurse visit me every week and give me progesterone injections. My husband wants to try for a girl; my mum says I should give my body a rest. Do you think I'm crazy to consider getting pregnant again knowing my history with high risk pregnancy? Will a third one be too much on my body?