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    Want to space out children

    Hi everyone,

    I have a slight dilemma. I have 4 children under the age of four. One set of twins in that mix. My husband wants to have another baby, and I am definitely not ready! I want to send some quality time with my kids and think i would be overwhelmed if I had another right now. I have tried to explain this to him with no success.

    Any ideas to help him see my way?

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    Kay,

    Sounds a bit frustrating.....the first thing that came to mind is.....leaving for a day with out kids....go to a salon, a spa, out with friends....and have your husband stay home with all of the children alone.
    Get out and do something you have always wanted to do...and go do it...exercise, run, read a book in the park.
    See if he still wants more when you get back.

    I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I don't have a sure fire way to suggest to you. However...communication with your husband is very important. Letting him know exactly how you feel should help this situation.

    ((((hugs))))

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    That's an idea, but another task in itself. I will try though. Thanks for the suggestion.
    Quote Originally Posted by sunnymumof5 View Post
    Kay,

    Sounds a bit frustrating.....the first thing that came to mind is.....leaving for a day with out kids....go to a salon, a spa, out with friends....and have your husband stay home with all of the children alone.
    Get out and do something you have always wanted to do...and go do it...exercise, run, read a book in the park.
    See if he still wants more when you get back.

    I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I don't have a sure fire way to suggest to you. However...communication with your husband is very important. Letting him know exactly how you feel should help this situation.

    ((((hugs))))

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