My boys are together so all the time -- at home, at school they share a room, etc. So of course they fight and bicker like siblings do -- but they are also each other's best friend. I know they really need some time apart but when the time comes for one to go off with me and one go with my husband they get really sad and want to be together. Any Suggestions?

Also, what are some of your favorite activites to do when you are spending special time with just one of your children. Maybe really playing it up will get them more excited about it. I'm sure as they get older they will REALLY benefit from the time apart