My eldest is turning two. I do not want to believe in terrible two, but somehow, even if she is so sweet and gentle, she would still show actions that I can see from terrible two kids. Now, I really wish to have a baby boy to compromise my children's gender. But I am having another girl. My concern is, I am trying to reduce her milk intake. But, I am afraid that she might feel that I am giving more milk to her new sister. You know, like reducing hers to give to her sister... I am not sure if I am just scared.. but, yes I am. I am not sure how to handle it. Their difference is just two years. I really hope that you can help me.