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Lotus
birth is the practice of leaving the umbilical cord uncut, so that the baby
remains attached to his/her placenta until the cord naturally separates at the
umbilicus- exactly as a cut cord does- at 3 to 10 days after birth. This
prolonged contact can be seen as a time of transition, allowing the baby to
slowly and gently let go of his/her attachment to the mother's body.
Although
we have no written records of cultures which leave the cord uncut, many
traditional peoples hold the placenta in high esteem. For example, Maori people
from New Zealand bury the placenta ritually on the ancestral marae, and the
Hmong, a hill tribe from South East Asia, believe that the placenta must be
retrieved after death to ensure physical integrity in the next life: a Hmong
baby's placenta is buried inside the house of its birth.
Lotus
Birth is a new ritual for us, having only been described in chimpanzees before
1974, when Clair Lotus Day- pregnant and living in California- began to question
the routine cutting of the cord. Her searching led her to an obstetrician who
was sympathetic to her wishes, and her son Trimurti was born in hospital and
taken home with his cord uncut. Lotus Birth was named by, and seeded through
Clair to Jeannine Parvati Baker in the US and Shivam Rachana in Australia, who
have both been strong advocates for this gentle practice.
Since
1974, many babies have been born this way, including babies born at home and in
hospital, on land and in water, and even by caesarean section. Lotus birth is a
beautiful and logical extension of natural childbirth, and invites us to reclaim
the so-called third stage of birth, and to honour the placenta, our baby’s
first source of nourishment.
I
am a New Zealand GP (family MD in America), and have 4 children born at home in
my adopted country, Australia. I have experienced Lotus birth with my second and
subsequent children, after being drawn to it during my second pregnancy through
contact with Shivam Rachana at the Centre for Human Transformation in Yarra
Glen, near Melbourne. Lotus birth made sense to me at the time, as I remembered
my time training in GP obstetrics, and the strange and uncomfortable feeling of
cutting through the gristly, fleshy cord that connects baby to placenta and
mother. The feeling for me was like cutting through a boneless toe, and it felt
good to avoid this cutting with my coming baby.
Through
the CHT I spoke with women who had chosen this for their babies, and experienced
a beautiful post-natal time. Some women also described their Lotus-Birth child's
self-possession and completeness. Others described it as a challenge,
practically and emotionally. Nicholas, my partner, was concerned that it might
interfere with the magic of those early days, but was happy to go along with my
wishes.
Zoe,
our second child, was born at home on the 10th of September 1993. Her placenta
was, unusually, an oval shape, which was perfect for the red velvet placenta bag
that I had sewn. Soon after the birth, we wrapped her placenta in a cloth nappy,
then in the placenta bag, and bundled it up with her in a shawl that enveloped
both of them. Every 24 hours, we attended to the placenta by patting it dry,
coating it liberally with salt, and dropping a little lavender oil onto it.
Emma, who was 2, was keen to be involved in the care of her sister's placenta.
As
the days passed, Zoe's cord dried from the umbilical end, and became thin and
brittle. It developed a convenient 90 degree kink where it threaded through her
clothes, and so did not rub or irritate her. The placenta, too, dried and
shrivelled due to our salt treatment, and developed a slightly meaty smell,
which interested our cat!
Zoe’s
cord separated on the 6th day, without any fuss; other babies have cried
inconsolably or held their cord tightly before separation. We planted her
placenta under a mandarin tree on her first birthday, which our dear friend and
neighbour Annie later dug up and put in a pot when we moved interstate. She told
us later that the mandarins from the tree were the sweetest she had ever tasted.
Our
third child, Jacob Patrick, was born on the 25th September 1995, at home into
water. Jacob and I stayed in the water for some time after the birth, so we
floated his placenta in a plastic ice-cream carton (with the lid on, and a
corner cut out for the cord) while I nursed him. This time, we put his placenta
in a sieve to drain for the first day. I neither dressed nor carried Jacob at
this time, but stayed in a still space with him, while Nicholas cared for Emma,
4, and Zoe, 2. His cord separated in just under 4 days, and I felt that he drank
deeply of the stillness of that time.
His
short "breaking forth" time was perfect because my parents arrived
from New Zealand the following day to help with our household. He later chose a
Jacaranda tree under which to bury his placenta at our new home in Queensland.
My
older children have blessed me with stories of their lives before birth, and
have been unanimously in favour of not cutting the cord- especially Emma, who
remembered the unpleasant feeling of having her cord cut, which she describes as
being “painful in my heart”. Zoe, at five years of age, described being
attached to a ‘love-heart thing’ in my womb and told me “When I was born,
the cord went off the love-heart thing and onto there (the placenta) and then I
came out.” Perhaps she experienced her placenta in utero as the source of
nourishment and love.
Lotus
birth has been, for us, an
exquisite ritual which has enhanced the magic of the early post natal days. I
notice an integrity and self-possession with my lotus-born children, and I
believe that lovingness, cohesion, attunement to nature, trust, and respect for
the natural order have all been imprinted on our family by our honouring of the
placenta, the Tree of Life, through Lotus Birth.
Please contact me if you would like more information on Lotus Birth
The red velvet bag which I made for Zoe has been used for 20 more babies and I am happy to lend it out to local families. Shivam Rachana, at the CHT has recently published a beautiful and comprehensive book on Lotus Birth and the CHT are keeping a register of Lotus Birth babies in Australia.; phone her on (03) 5965 2325 for more information. Address PO Box 233, Yarra Glen, Vic 3775. Australia. Email golden@xtreme.net.au or, for details of the book, see www.vicnet.net.au/~icsm/lotus_birth/launch.
In
the US, Jeannine Parvati Baker has produced a Lotus Birth information pack- see
her beautiful site www.freestone.org
for details.
AuthorSarah J Buckley is a GP/family MD, an internationally published writer on pregnancy birth and mothering, and mother of 4 children, all born gently at home. Sarah is the author of the book Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering. See her website for more details, www.sarahjbuckley.com
Disclaimer The information contained on this website is of a general nature and is designed for educational purposes only. The information is not meant to replace the recommendations or advise of your midwife or doctor. Please consult your midwife or doctor regarding your health care.
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