It’s time to sound the drum roll. You’re 3 weeks pregnant. This is the week your baby is conceived! If you have been trying to conceive you will have earmarked the magic four days this week which will give you your best chance of success. You have made love on some (or maybe all!) of those days… so when is the magic moment? It’s tricky to pinpoint that exactly. Remember that sperm are microscopic and they have a long journey to make from your vagina all the way up through your uterus to your fallopian tube. Yes… that’s right… that’s where your baby will be created before making the journey all the way to your uterus this week.

Your Baby

Your 3 weeks pregnant and fertilisation has been successful. The genetic code within your egg has combined with the genetic code inside the one lucky sperm that entered it, creating your baby. The chromosomes within your ovum will create every part of your baby – bone, muscle, skin, organs – as well as your baby’s placenta and umbilical cord. This is why our children resemble their biological mother and father. Half of their genes come from each of their biological parents respectively.

Within that genetic code is the code for gender. What determines a female baby is the presence of two X sex chromosomes (XX). A male baby is determined by the presence of an X and a Y sex chromosome. Because a woman only ever has an X chromosome to offer in her eggs, it is the sex chromosome within sperm that determines gender. You eggs will only ever contain an X but sperm will contain either an X or Y sex chromosome. Combined with your X, an X sperm will create a female baby (XX) and a Y sperm will create a male baby (XY). That’s right. You are only three weeks pregnant and your baby’s gender is already a certainty.

While fertilisation is occurring, your ovum is being swept along your fallopian tube towards your uterus where it will hopefully implant in your uterus. This journey takes around six to seven days and by the end of it your egg will contain a cluster of around 100 cells and be call a blastocyst.

Your Mind and Body

Assuming your baby is being conceived naturally, at 3 weeks pregnant despite all the activity occurring inside you, you will be unaware that you are pregnant. Once fertilisation occurs your body will start producing a hormone called Human Chorionic Gonadtrophin (HCG). This hormone in turn prompts your ovaries to keep producing progesterone which stops your uterus from shedding its lining – that is it stops your period from occurring. It is HCG that pregnancy tests are attempting to detect. HCG can first be detected in your blood around 11 days after conception or in your urine between 12 and 14 days after conception.

Meanwhile the progesterone being created by your ovaries will weave its own magic… some of it not quite delightful. Your ovaries are performing a stopgap exercise, producing the progesterone necessary to preserve your pregnancy (stop your periods) until the placenta can take over around seven weeks from now. It’s an incredibly important job! However progesterone is also the hormone to blame for most of the unpleasant symptoms of early pregnancy like nausea, constipation, indigestion and reflux… but at 3 weeks pregnant you are safe from those symptoms.

How Fertilisation Occurs

Your ovum is like a homing beacon to sperm. The 300 million or so sperm released by your partner make a beeline for your egg, swimming through your cervix, up through your uterus and finally into the fallopian tube your egg is currently travelling down. Those sperm that make it that far will then attempt to break through the ovum’s outer shell. The first one to do so wins the chance for the genetic code it carries to be combined with that of your ovum and create your baby.

As soon as a sperm makes it through that outer shell a biochemical reaction occurs which hardens the shell of your ovum making it impenetrable to sperm. This reaction is what prevents more than one sperm from entering your ovum. So what happens next? In the case of a healthy ovum and sperm, the cells within the egg will begin dividing. A single cell become two, which becomes four, which becomes eight and so on. During the journey down your fallopian tube the cells will begin differentiating themselves into two distinct purposes – those that will create your baby, and those that will create his or her placenta.

But what if your baby is conceived using artificial reproductive technology (ART)? The process of fertilisation itself is the same. The only difference is where and how it occurs. ART procedures are too complex to explain here but an article is included in the resource list below which explains them in some detail. Generally though ART involves the combination of sperm and an egg in a culture within a laboratory environment. The goal of course is creating embryos that can then be transferred to the woman’s uterus. Generally couples will be using their own egg and sperm respectfully but sometimes donor eggs or sperm may be used.

Your cycle will be tracked to determine the ideal time to transfer the embryo in order to match and mimic the natural rhythms of your body. While the process used to create your embryo is a long way from natural fertilisation, once the transfer occurs the process of implantation occurs in exactly the same way. Your ovum and the sperm that fertilised it have simply skipped the race to conception and the ride down your fallopian tube.

Pregnancy Tests

If you are trying to conceive you will undoubtedly be eager to find out if this month you have hit the jackpot. The desire to find out can be so strong that some women will start using urine pregnancy tests the day after they have sex, in the hopes of a nice surprise.

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