Lotus Birth by Lavendilly
Rosella was our lotus birth baby. We had considered the idea with Kaelan, and I had even prepared a beautiful silk bag, with a lotus painted on it, to keep his placenta in. We had bought the salt and had everything ready … but still we had reservations about it. I was still having issues getting over the ‘ick’ factor. As it happened, Kaelan was born by emergency cesarean and so the decision about whether to lotus birth or not was made for us. There was no way our hospital would consider such an option, and the nurses were baffled by our request to take Kaelan’s placenta home with us for burial. It was referred to as ‘dead meat’ and handed to us in a white bucket with the instructions: Get rid of it today. I appreciate the fact that they didn’t want an organ sitting in a bucket of blood in the maternity ward. Neither did we and so David took it home and froze it as soon as he could. Later (almost 2 years later in fact!) it was planted under an avocado tree that had been gifted to Kaelan.
What is a Lotus Birth?
Lotus Birth is the name given to a process of placenta-care after the completion of a baby’s birth. The umbilical cord is not cut, and the placenta is allowed to remain attached to the baby until it detaches of its own accord.
Why do it?
This is a good question – there are benefits to leaving the cord attached to the baby for longer, as it allows the baby to receive the full compliment of blood and nutrients that are stored within the placenta. This can be acheived without a lotus birth, just by letting enough time for this process to be competed before cutting the cord. It isn’t necessary to leave the cord attached after these nurtrients have journeyed across to the infant.
So the whole affair of having to drain and clean the placenta, then dry it and salt it and care for it, as well as the baby, until it detaches seems like a messy business, and one that most people wouldn’t want to be bothered with after the messy business of birth.
To be honest, I can’t tell you exactly WHY we did it. There was nothing scientific involved. It just felt right, and in the end, after Rosella’s birth it wasn’t even a conscious decision at all. The placenta felt like a part of Rosella … and it wasn’t gross at all. It was beautiful. The opportunity to examine a placenta doesn’t arise very often, so if you do get the chance then take it! Our midwife talked us through how it was made up. She took off the sack that Rosella had been tucked inside for so long…and it was the softest thing I have ever felt in my life. I wouldn’t mind being wrapped up in that!
Our midwife showed us the veins on the placenta, the ‘Tree of Life’ pattern was clearly visible. We looked at where it had been attached to my womb. Kaelan was three and a half years of age and was very fascinated by this organ. We told him it had been Rosella’s little pillow when she was inside me, and from then on, it that was what it was known as.
How do you care for the placenta?
Rosella’s placenta was drained through a colander into a bowl. When this process was finished it was patted dry and rubbed with coarse sea salt and powdered rosemary. Then it was allowed to dry naturally in the air, only lightly covered with a muslin cloth. At night time we wrapped it up in a few towels, and a plastic bag, tucked it into the placenta bag and put it next to Rosella.
The cord dries stiff, and it is interesting how quickly it really dries out! So this means you need to be careful about how you position the cord when it is drying so that you can easily move the placenta about when you are changing or dressing baby. I believe you can soak the cord in water for a while to soften and reposition it when it is drying, but we didn’t need to do this for Rosella. It was as if she had a little swivel attached to her belly button and we managed ok.
Only at one point, around about day 3, did we begin smelling something unpleasant. We had been changing the salt and rosemary on the placenta each day so it wasn’t coming from there at all, but instead from her belly button. In infection in the belly button could lead to a fever, but our midwife checked it and treated it with pure lavender oil before it reached that point, and by the end of the day the odour was gone and there was no infection at all.
Life with Baby and Placenta
It wasn’t so bad for us. No trouble at all really. We had already told family and friends about our plans to do this, and I had a few friends who already had successful lotus births so I was confident we would manage. Not everyone understood why we would consider such a decision, and that is fair enough, sometimes things are just difficult to explain. Matters of spirit. But those who were sceptical of the idea kept quiet and just observed, and we were grateful for the space we were given to explore the peaceful potentials of Rosella’s birth.
Having the placenta attached to the baby meant, for us, that Rosella was disturbed as little as possible. She lay with me, peacefully, on the bed and was only picked up or moved when she was being changed or dressed. Yes, it was a little bit awkward sometimes, especially when trying to find a comfortable position to breastfeed, but this was not an insurmountable problem. We generally kept the placenta only lightly covered, to speed the drying process, but we used the placenta bag when visitors came. They never even noticed, as often the placenta was wrapped up with Rosella in a muslin cloth anyway, and we were not encouraging our visitors to pick her up and cuddle her in her first few days in any case. Plenty of time for cuddles.
The placenta detached of its own accord about 9am on the 4th morning. Rosella had been holding on to it in her little hands for about half an hour before hand. The whole time since her birth she had not cried. She had cooed and gurgled peacefully, but never uttered a cry until the day her cord came off, and even then it was a pathetic little cry!
Advantages of Lotus Birth
- Rosella was allowed to adjust to and absorb (literally) her new life outside of the womb in her own time and space.
- The process of her birth was honoured and allowed to unfold in the way it needed to.
- Rosella was a very peaceful and calm baby throughout this process.
- Caring for the placenta was like a ritual of honour. It involved my husband and my son in a loving and compassionate, but also very practical way. I concerned myself with the recovery from birth, and the journey into breastfeeding, and they helped with the care of the placenta.
- Visitors are not inclined to cuddle a child AND a placenta, so Rosella was not introduced to too many new people, (and their air-borne germs!) in the first few days of her life. Our guests were respectful and reverent and admired her from the edge of the bed. She was not carried out of the bedroom. She was not carried anywhere, but allowed to remain in her state of blissful peace.
- And as previously mentioned Baby receives all possible nutrients from the placenta in the time before it begins to dry. Almost one-third of the baby’s blood is still contained in the placenta at birth. It is really important that the baby receives this!! When the cord is cut too early, or when cord blood is harvested, this means your own baby is missing out on vital nourishment, and then has to work hard to MAKE new blood to replace the blood contained within the cord and placenta.
I am aware that there are many people who have reason to be grateful for the amazing properties of cord blood. It is like no other blood and is only found in infants, whose bodies and internal organs are still undeveloped. It is a decision that has to be made – allow other people to benefit from this blood, and help them recover from a life-threatening illness, or allow my own baby to use this blood to become the healthy person they need to be.
Would I do it again?
Yes I would, and I plan to. Our next baby is due in July, a nice cool month to do lotus birth! Our experience with lotus birth was calming and peaceful for everyone. I did not need scientific reasoning to justify the decision. Matters of spirit don’t require justification by facts when you know in your heart what is real. Sure, there is no real reason to do a lotus birth, but neither is there a reason NOT to. If the placenta is properly attended to, and your midwife is observing the process attentively to guard against any possible forms of infection, there is no risk whatsoever. Absolutely I would do it again.
December 15, 2009